Showing posts with label SPORTSMANSHIP. Show all posts
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Wednesday, January 20, 2016

This is not good: Brawl break out at girls HS basketball game in Indiana


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This after reports from a Kentucky middle school boys game where parents from the stands accosted an official after the coach took his team to the locker room in dispute of a technical foul  issued to said coach.

from Yahoo Sports:
http://news.yahoo.com/two-girls-high-school-basketball-164048388.html
One would assume that the girl caught on video stomping an opponent laying on the ground will be one of those players who may have to face some additional discipline.
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As a part of their punishment, coaches from both sides will have to take behavioral courses, while players will need to take sportsmanship courses. Both teams will also not be able to play in this year’s state tournament and will be on probation for the entire next season.

This article says the combatants here in Indiana will undergo some remedial training and behavioral modification, a rehash off stuff they go through BEFORE they take the court!!

I know some people think I exaggerate when I tell horror stories from the field or court, but when I see stuff like this going on, if anything, I may be understating the problem.



Thursday, September 10, 2015

Do the Patriots cheat? It sure seems like there's a lot of smoke according to SI.com


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Some of this goes back a while, but it is a pretty lengthy article. This is what they do, this is who they are. It's in their DNA.

from SI.com:
si.com
They've created a culture where that type of behavior is encouraged and rewarded," one team executive says. "Everybody there is supposed to make the visitor uncomfortable—do everything that is borderline against the rules, but clearly against the principles of good sportsmanship."
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Tom Brady is a popular player, therefore he must be defended and the system attacked, I have said that all along. So we don't condone cheating under any circumstances when we're talking about an unpopular player, but it's somehow OK once a popular "baby dolphin" gets snared in the fishing net.

I don't entirely agree with the Brandon Marshall Theory that it's all about race, because in baseball they would have attacked the system just as virulently if Derek Jeter was ever snared in the net and I think they do the same for say a Russell Wilson. But I understand the sentiment.  It's more about popularity than race, but mainstream popularity is skewed somewhat by race. 


Monday, August 03, 2015

Baseball umpire says player punched him after calling third strike

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It seems as if when the robot umpire take over the world, you may have to arm them with a stun gun or a sting ray to ward off angry players / coaches, Note to Eric Byrnes,  See Schilling response to Questec.

from umpire.org
http://www.umpire.org/index.php/stories-archive/12-abua-abua/469-baseball-umpire-says-player-punched-him-after-calling-third-strike
Credit: Tigerdroppings.com - Enraged that he was called out on strikes, a 16-year-old baseball player punched an umpire under the left eye, causing serious injuries to the umpire's face, according to a Jupiter police report.
"It's like he was trying to kill me. He hit me so hard, blood was coming out my nose. I spit and saw a piece of my tooth come out," said Jupiter resident Chad Saunders, 48, a Marine who was being paid $50 to umpire the July 3 game at an auxiliary field at Roger Dean Stadium. 
Police have charged the boy, who was not named in the police report, with aggravated battery, a felony. 
X-rays determined Saunders has suffered four fractures to his cheek below his left eye. His upper left rear molar was chipped. Two plates and several screws were used in an operation on July 16 to repair the damage, said the Jupiter resident. 
"Those plates and screws are the only things holding my face together," said Saunders, a former realtor and bartender from New Jersey.

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Here come the RoboUmps:
http://arstechnica.com/business/2015/07/for-the-first-time-sensors-and-a-computer-play-umpire-in-a-pro-baseball-game/

It all sounds cool and efficient, like my computer.....when it runs right. When it doesn't.......like when it freezes up, or I keep getting the sands of time thingy.....you better be ready to que up Leslie Nielsen.

'Cause that ain't gonna be too funny 'cuz.

https://youtu.be/VWY9S-uKU-4


Plus what's going to happen to all that work the SABR-cats are doing trying to quantify the value of pitch-framing. All that work goes bye-bye.

http://fivethirtyeight.com/features/buster-poseys-pitch-framing-makes-him-a-potential-mvp/
San Francisco Giants' Buster Posey catches the ball.

Buster Posey is a "potential MVP" because of his pitch framing? Player, please!?!? First off, he is an actual MVP winner and that was before anybody involved with SABR or statistical analysis "discovered" his pitch framing ability. I think he does an awful lot of other shit well that makes him a potential MVP candidate this year over and above his pitch framing skill. My goodness. The stupid shit you find on the Internet.




Friday, July 17, 2015

Baseball's teen umpires grow up quickly or strike out | CBCSports.ca Mobile


Not surprising to see the same behavior north of the border. This is somewhat distressing because these blowhard fans are abusing and taking advantage of the kids reluctance to stand up to their elders in these situations, defaulting to the "respect your elders" mode and that's good.  Whatever the punishments is for ejections or Code of Conduct violations when they engage with an adult umpire ought to be doubled or tripled in these cases. JMO

from cbcsports.com
http://www.cbc.ca/m/sports/baseball/baseball-s-teen-umpires-grow-up-quickly-or-strike-out-1.3147372

A smoking heckler

"I asked him if he could stop, and he said, 'I'll do what I want' and then he moved his chair to behind me," she says.

"He was smoking and it was going to the kids' faces. I was very close to asking him to leave because he was really bothering the kids."
While teens like Ryan and Marisa stick it out, many tire of the catcalls, insults and taunting, and they quit. 

Developing a thick skin comes with experience, says Alain Fournier, past president of Little Britain Baseball north of Oshawa, Ont.
"It's hard for some (kids) to say 'Excuse me, m'am, can you keep it down?' or 'Coach, I'm right,'" Fournier says.
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Tuesday, July 07, 2015

Umpires now required to give warnings before ejecting coaches | Coach and Athletic Director


Umpires must now give baseball coaches a warning before ejecting them from games. | Photo: Kevin Hoffman
Umpires must now give baseball coaches a warning before ejecting them from games. 
Photo: Kevin Hoffman

This is going to work out well. This is what they want and generally get at the lower / travel levels. "Keep the coaches in the game. Give 'em a warning first or confine them to the dugout." So why would you take a procedure from a place where you have the worst outcomes and implement it where generally speaking you have the best outcomes?

It doesn't make sense but WDIK? ~;::::::;( )">  ¯\_( )_/¯

from Coach and Athletic Director:


July 6, 2015 / Baseball

The National Federation of State High School Associations approved a new rule that requires umpires to give baseball coaches a warning before ejecting them from games.




Previously, umpires were given the freedom to determine whether they would issue a warning or go straight to ejecting a coach or restricting him or her to the bench/dugout. The new rule will be enforced beginning with the 2016 season.

From the NFHS:
"The new rule change has initiated a penalty progression, starting with a written warning, restriction to the bench/dugout and subsequent ejection from the contest," said Elliot Hopkins, NFHS director of sports and student services and liaison to the Baseball Rules Committee.
The changes to Rule 3-3-1 Penalty will help to de-escalate contentious situations and allow coaches to dictate their status in the game by their behavior, Hopkins said.
"A successful game official practices preventive officiating, and this new penalty progression will allow the official to issue penalties that give the coach the opportunity to remain in the game and teach his players."

Another change approved by the NFHS Board of Directors states that a coach, player or any other personnel may not "have any physical contact, spitting, kicking of dirt or any other physical action directed toward an umpire," according to a news release.

"Bad behavior that is being imitated from other levels has no place in education-based athletics and will not be tolerated," Hopkins said in the press release. "If we are to continue to use sport to teach life lessons, then we have to ensure that appropriate behavior and conduct are modeled from those adults in the role of coach/teacher."
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Monday, October 20, 2014

Honor Thy Opponent



"I have tried to teach them to show class, to have pride, and to display character. I think football, winning games, takes care of itself if you do that." -Paul Bear Bryant

Some good news...

Athletic Management : Momentum Media:

Honor Thy Opponent

In the Bakersfield, Calif., area, the issue of proper etiquette for when a player lays injured on the field took center stage recently. The discussion was spurred by fans of Liberty High School freshman team who became incensed when players from the Frontier High School team did not take a knee after a Liberty player lay on the turf and appeared to be unconscious.

Instead of dropping to a knee in solidarity with the Liberty players, the Frontier team was called to the sidelines--despite chants coming from the Liberty stands calling for the players to take a knee. But according to Frontier administrators, the team was behaving according to protocol.

"The protocol at Frontier High School is to stand respectfully and quietly on the sidelines while the injured opposing player is being attended to," Kern High School District spokeswoman Lisa Krch said in the email to the Bakersfield Californian. "No one is allowed to talk and there is no coaching at that time, either. During this particular incident, the Frontier coach saw an injured player and sent his student athletes to the sideline."

Adding to the discussion was Christopher Meyers, Director of the Kegley Institute of Ethics and a philosophy professor at Cal State Bakersfield, who called the tradition of taking a knee "a terrific expression of sportsmanship and respect."

"I am thrilled to see it moving out of youth sports into high school and collegiate athletics," Meyers said in an email to the Bakersfield Californian. "One of the key values of sports activity is the development and enhancement of character, as revealed in the virtues of honesty, honor and fair play.

"So long as 'taking a knee' is meant sincerely--and by every account, it appears to be--it is a wonderful example of exactly those virtues," Meyers continued. "Student-players should thus be encouraged, but not required, to participate and I would hope coaches would embrace the character-building opportunity it affords."
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On a positive sportsmanship note, after losing to Copperas Cove (Tex.) High School, Ellison (Tex.) High School Head Coach Trent Gregory quickly gathered his emotions and called the opposing players over and asked them to huddle around them. The reason?
"I just wanted to thank them," Gregory told kdhnews.com, "for showing respect to our team and our program and our school."
Gregory also shared words of encouragement as Copperas Cove prepared for a potential District 12-6A championship-deciding game in the coming week. The move caught the Bulldawgs off guard.
"That has never happened to me before," Copperas Cove senior linebacker Michael Sumrall said. "That is good sportsmanship. It shows that he doesn't just care about himself and his team but that he cares about others, including his opponents."
"It is not always about wins and losses," Gregory said. "We always want to win, but it is about growing young men with character to have respect for each other."
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Thursday, September 25, 2014

Giants concede defeat, respect their opponent

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This is all you can do sometimes, tip your cap to your opponent, lick your wounds and come back to fight another day.

I'm still not counting on the playoffs providing too excitement for the Giants, I think the injuries have been / will be just too much to overcome. The path in the N.L. leads through Washington and Los Angeles. The Pirates, Cardinals and Giants have to dig deep and see if they have enough to challenge the front-runners.

The Pirates with their youth, energy and vigor, the Giants with their "been there done that" experience and brittle bones, the Cardinals with The Cardinal Way, which is to consistently come up big in the playoffs.

from mercurynews.com
POSTGAME NOTES: Giants lose division, but move on and look to clinch and hand their season to Madison Bumgarner - Giants Extra:
— This one really had to hurt the staff. They watched their team get overwhelmed, and to top it off, Wilson came out for the ninth. But the coaches, led by Dave Righetti, handled the end with class … 
A positive: Andrew Susac is now 3 for 7 against Kershaw this season. Matt Duffy is 2 for 2. Joe Panik is 2 for 8, which is like a .600 average when you adjust for Kershaw. These kids are not afraid.
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Bowed, but not broken

Thursday, July 10, 2014

ABUSIVE SPORTS PARENTS: The Unforeseen Fall-Out from Fans Screaming at Young Refs


Sports Officials will have to "Go Galt" before anything changes for the better. Given the reports cited below, that appears to be happening at some level both here in the U.S. and Canada.

With all the focus that schools and organizations put on sportsmanship (everybody has a Code of Conduct) do you ever wonder why these incidents keep happening with increasing severity than ever before?

I don't.

The bad actors, whether they be players, their parents or coaches are coddled throughout the system because they WIN. And nobody directly and effectively confronts their behavior. They just pass them on. PERIOD. END OF STORY.

The leagues and school administrators have a direct relationship with each other and their interest is in minimizing complaints and "noise" about issues like this in order to keep the line moving, the show must go on and the fees keep flowing in. 

So we have a "Silence of the Lambs" culture hidden and embedded within the system. The economic incentive / disincentive prevents the enforcement mechanism -- which has to come from the umpires in conjunction with administrators -- from working properly. Leagues don't ever want to admit / confront a problem openly and directly when it develops in their front yard.

The officials, who are supposed to be on the front lines of enforcement are sabotaged at every turn if they even attempt to touch these "radioactive materials" (the bad actors) with threats of "You'll never work here again" from schools and leagues. "You need to have a thicker skin. I'm getting complaints about you" from administrators and assignors because they have an economic incentive in minimizing complaints and coddling their clients to keep their fees flowing.  "The show must go on". We'll just send another umpire who will tolerate / ignore the behavior and the vicious cycle continues on overdrive.

All those fancy "Sport a Good Attitude" signs and glossy "Code of Conduct" missives, that everyone reads and signs at the beginning of the year before the game start and then forgets about throughout the year as games are played and behavior worsens, are MEANINGLESS if the miscreants know that the "Powers that Be" will not enforce them in any meaningful way.

So wonder no more boys and girls. There is a reason why EVERYBODY is on board in saying this kind of stuff can't continue and yet IT DOES. The people who should be shutting it down are handcuffed, shackled and silenced by the people that hire them because if they can hire them, they can fire them.

So the good umpires "Go Galt" and leave and the natural selection process continues. The sportsmanship environment continues to get ever more polluted and everyone says "Why is this happening?" 

Well, wonder no more.

Recently, we've had reports of sports officials suffering serious bodily harm and death as a result of working games for some of these social deviants:

 Charges elevated to second-degree murder in fatal Livonia assault of soccer referee

How many of those is enough or too much, I wonder? As we've witnessed with the Bryan Stow verdict, maybe lawsuits are the only answer.  It seems to be the only thing that gets the Powers that Be's attention.

Until the "Powers that Be" get serious and put more actions behind their words, the environment will not improve. PERIOD. END OF STORY

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      HOW ADULTS' ABUSE OF REFEREES ENDANGERS PLAYER SAFETY by Doug Abrams On June 10, the Bakersfield Californian reported that all Kern County...
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This column concerns another, especially harmful result that can escape the untrained eye when veteran referees prematurely hang up their whistles. Particularly in contact and collision sports, the shortage of experienced officials can increase the risk of injury to players, including ones who play clean and follow the rules of the game.
 Compromising Safety
"To be effective for promoting safety," says a recent medical study, a sport's rules "must be enforced rigorously and consistently by referees and leagues." Parents and coaches assume important enforcement roles, but referees are the primary enforcers once the game starts. The American Academy of Pediatrics reports consensus among sports medicine professionals that "[o]fficials controlling the physicality of thegame . . . can . . . play significant roles in reducing contact injuries."
Particularly in contact or collision sports, this essential control suffers when so many veteran referees are driven to quit each year. Many replacement refs are simply not yet ready for the responsibilities cast on them. But for the premature departures of so many veterans, many of the replacements would not yet be on the field.
Before parents and coaches criticize less experienced officials for not controlling high school and youth league games, the adults need to consider whether their over-the-top misbehavior helped create the very situation that draws their criticism. All too often, parents and coaches get the quality of officiating that they deserve. All too often, their children are the losers.
 [Sources: Jeff Evans, Kern County Association Faces Referee Shortage, Bakersfield Californian, June 10, 2014; Charles H. Tator et al., Spinal Injuries in Canadian Ice Hockey: An Update to 2005, 19 Clin. J. Sport Med. 451 (2009); Chris G. Kouteres & Andrew J.M. Gregory, Injuries in Youth Soccer, 125 Pediatrics 410 (Feb. 2010)]



Amateur hockey referee Scott Miskiewicz says he considered giving up officiating after he was sucker-punched by a player during a game last March.
“An incident like that, you kind of wonder is it worth the $35 you get for that game?" said the 18-year-old Manitoban, recalling the attack.
But while Miskiewicz continues to officiate, some amateur referees are fed up with the abuse heaped on them during games. While most of the abuse is verbal, it can turn physical, and deadly, as it did this week when a referee of an adult-league soccer match in Detroit died after he was punched in the head by a player upset that he was going to be ejected from the game.
The frequency with which these attacks are occurring and whether it’s increasing is difficult to say. Miskiewicz insisted that his incident was an anomaly, and that while he is mostly a target of benign verbal attacks, the physical attack was a first. 
In an email to Miskiewicz to offer him support after the assault, NHL official Vaughan Rody lamented that when it comes to referees, "We lose 10,000 great young men and woman a year due to abuse."
Bruce Tennant, who has been refereeing amateur hockey in Toronto for 40 years, said he was once cross-checked in the side of the head by a player after he threw him out of a game.
Tennant said he "could count on two hands the number of times I've been abused," but a lot of the senior referees are quitting because of the abuse they have received.
A couple of years ago, in response to what seemed to be a slew of reports of officials getting attacked after games in parking lots, Sports Officials Canada began tracking complaints. The organization, which represents sports officials across the country, is set to launch an abuse database.
“I think so many people have buried their head in the sand about this,” said Denise Pittuck, executive director of the organization. “They consider it part of the game, and they don’t think it’s affecting recruitment. Certainly now the sports are realizing recruitment is down, retention is down.”
Barry Mano, the president and founder of the U.S. National Association of Sports Officials, told The Associated Press that his group spends 20 per cent of its time on assault and liability-related issues, up from around three per cent 20 years ago. 
Meanwhile, in Saskatchewan, the Saskatoon Referees Association said the number of referees dropped in 2013 because of fans and coaches abusing young officials. 
Two years ago, a report published in the Clinical Journal of Sport Medicine — titled Violence in Canadian Amateur Hockey: The Experience of Referees in Ontario — found that more than 90 per cent of the 632 referees who responded to their survey said they were recipients of aggression and anger. Around 46 per cent said that referees are threatened by physical violence.
The study, co-authored by Toronto neurosurgeon Dr. Charles Tator along with Dr. Alun Ackery and Dr. Carolyn Snider, found that some referees reported they had been punched, spit on and had garbage thrown on them (with nine per cent saying police had to get involved.) Specific examples of abuse included a parent breaking a referee's finger, a referee grabbed by the throat by a player, sexual and homophobic comments to a female referee and a fan threatening to "carve out a linesman's eye."
But Peter Woods, executive director of Hockey Manitoba, said that the media attention given to some of the abusive incidents may give the impression that it’s a worse problem than it is or has ever been. Woods said the number of complaints, ranging from threatening an official to actual physical contact, has remained stable throughout the years.
He said there are probably 10 to 15 incidents a year, with 60 to 70 per cent of those involving a threat to an official and maybe a couple where there's physical contact.
“One is probably too many, but it’s not at a catastrophic level that is unmanageable or that is negatively impacting our sport," he said.
Although she doesn't have hard data, Pittuck said the number of abusive incidents appears to be on the rise, and that there seem to be more physical attacks against referees and more attacks from spectators.
"There's always verbal abuse. It should never be part of the game," she said. "Officials shouldn’t have to accept that. But a lot people think that 'Hey, there’s  an official, I can yell at them, I can do whatever I want.' It’s that mentality that we’re trying to break."
Pittuck said that according to their research, younger officials are more willing to report abuse than older officials, who have developed an attitude that it's part of the game. She said abuse also seems to be more prevalent in team sports. 
Officials are also subject to cyberbullying, where those upset with a referee's officiating are putting their names and faces up on Facebook.
Tennant blamed some of the referees for the abuse, saying a lot of what officials get they bring onthemselves.
"They put the striped jersey on and they think it's instant respect. You sort of have to earn that respect," he said.
"It's almost like they expect the abuse, so they don't even put an effort in, because they know they're going to get abused anyway."


Sunday, June 15, 2014

Take me out to the Ball Game

Take Me Out to the Ball Game

This article from 2008 seems almost quaint in the current youth sport environment. It does ask what is many times posed as the big ticket debatable question, "Does involvement in sports promote character or produce characters".

This goes back to the quote from sportswriter Heywood Hale Broun:
"Sports do not build character. They reveal it."  

If that is the case, it seems like we are spending a lot of time as coaches and sports administrators attempting to jam square pegs into round holes. Maybe that is the most maddening part of the problem.

from vision.org
http://www.vision.org/visionmedia/article.aspx?id=4710

Society & Culture 
Take Me Out to the Ball Game
March 11, 2008

Early seasonal sightings in North America of the blue-beaked shortstop and the red-breasted right fielder foretell of flocks sure to follow. As winter gives way to spring, town parks and area playing fields will sprout youth sport programs—a bevy of brightly-colored, budding ball players eager to strut their stuff.  

Laden with lawn chairs, picnic baskets and pets, proud parents leave their nests to assemble and enjoy the adorable exuberance and athletic exploits of their offspring. The cheerful scene of children at play in a safe and well-supervised setting is a delight to behold and a credit to communities that care for their fledging citizens. 

For many moms and dads, going out to the ball game is a welcome diversion from daily duties, a time of wholesome family fun in hometown America. If you buy them some peanuts and cracker jacks, they won’t care if they ever go back to the harried pace and hectic regimen of routine responsibilities.


In the Big-Inning

Early in the 20th century social agencies like the Young Men’s Christian Association (YMCA) began sponsoring sports and structured recreational activities, ostensibly designed to keep boys out of trouble. 

In 1938 an oil company clerk named Carl Stotz had an idea for an organized baseball league for the boys in his hometown of Williamsport, Pennsylvania. With some help from family and friends, the first official Little League game was played on June 6, 1939.  Over the past six decades, Little League Baseball has become the world’s largest organized youth sports program with over 180,000 teams in all 50 U.S. states and 80 different countries. 

Little League Baseball describes its mission, unchanged since 1939, as being to: “provide a wholesome, healthy activity for children using the ball field as a classroom, to instill discipline, teamwork, sportsmanship and fair play, and to establish a set of values to guide them into adulthood, and hopefully responsible citizenship. These are the reasons Carl Stotz founded the program, and they are the reasons it exists today.” 

Since the middle of the 20th century, adult-organized athletic activities for youth have grown dramatically. The view that these programs convey values, and cultivate character has been generally accepted in American culture. 

A 2001 National Council of Youth Sports report indicates that 63 percent of boys and 37 percent of girls in America participate in an organized youth sports program for an average of five years. Over 38 million children participate in structured sports programs annually.


It’s Only a Game, Isn’t It?

Why do parents continue to register their kids in record numbers? Is it all fun and games?  Or is there an expected return on their investment of time and money? At a time when warnings of childhood obesity abound, the obvious benefits of additional activity and exercise are attractive. Some have fond memories of their own childhood experiences and wish the same for their kids. Others express hope that physical abilities learned through structured play with peers will foster confidence and enhance social skills, teamwork, cooperation and the ability to deal with disappointment.



But are we asking too much of sports and extracurricular activities? Is it reasonable to expect fields to function as classrooms of character? If we claim that sports can assist in building character, must we concede that if abused they can damage and destroy character? 


By nature, competitive sports involve determined effort and emotional intensity. It is this inherent pressure to push oneself to perform that attracts some parents to enroll their kids in these activities. They anticipate that the discipline demanded by competition will promote physical and mental toughness, produce character and prepare children for the rigors of life.


But does competition promote Character or produce characters?

Daniel E. Doyle, Jr. is founder and executive director of the Institute of International Sport at the University of Rhode Island. Widely-acclaimed institute initiatives include National Sportsmanship Day, The World Scholar-Athlete Games, and the Center for Sports Parenting. Doyle holds a master of arts degree from the Fletcher School of Law and Diplomacy at Tufts University. He has addressed sports ethics with student athletes for the National Collegiate Athletic Association (NCAA) on over 100 college campuses and has received two honorary doctorates for his work in sports education. 


Doyle recently discussed the relationship between sports and character with Vision. When asked if competitive sports can deliver the much-desired benefit of building character in children, he replied: “Sports can teach traits that transfer into skill for success in life, but athletic prowess alone is not a guaranteed path to good life choices.” 


In his recently released book, The Encyclopedia of Sports Parenting, the first in a three-volume series that can serve parents as a comprehensive guide for navigating the youth sports scene from novice to the NCAA, Doyle declares: “As a youngster playing sports in Worcester, Massachusetts, it was common to hear a well-meaning coach say, ‘If you’re a success on the court, you’ll be a success in life.’ This is not necessarily true!” 


“For those unable to transfer athletic excellence to other undertakings, there seemed to be a revealing common denominator: their success as young athletes had given them a false, even delusional sense of self-importance. For many, athletic success was accompanied by the passivity and even complicity of parents, coaches or teachers who permitted the young stars to take shortcuts and neglect their academic and character development.  When parents encourage balance and perspective, sports can have a wonderful impact on a child. Without such balance and perspective, sports can produce detrimental, sometimes devastating consequences.” 


Sadly, a lack of perspective causes some to perceive the young player’s rite of passage as the first encounter with the formidable forces that determine winners and losers in the game of life. To these folks this is more than mere child’s play. Their offspring’s identity, and no doubt their own, is at stake.


Cheers, Jeers, Tears and Fears!
Unfortunately, all is not fun and games in Norman Rockwell’s America. Social commentators continue to express concern about the coarsening of contemporary culture. That trend reveals itself as a lack of sportsmanship by coaches, athletes and spectators at sporting events. Although unsportsmanlike conduct is not new, it does seem that appropriate standards of behavior were less ambiguous to previous generations.  

Why do we tolerate trash-talking, taunting and baiting of opponents by young athletes? Are we unwittingly acquiescing to an adversarial “in your face” attitude? Emboldened by the cover of the crowd, some fans revel in hurling crude comments and abusive attempts at humor toward players, officials and each other. 

Ironically, some adults expect organized sports to help develop good character in their children while they themselves demonstrate insidious incivility and lack of self-control on the sidelines. Are they unaware that their crass conduct undermines the credibility of the claim that sports competition is a classroom for responsible citizenship? 

Is good sportsmanship becoming an endangered ethic of a bygone era? 

Doyle believes that balance and perspective come from constructing a values-based sports parenting philosophy. He advises parents to adopt an anchors/aspirations approach to child rearing. 

“My anchor/aspiration approach to child rearing is simple. It proposes that aspirational goals such as excellence in sports or the arts are wonderful—they ennoble our lives. But the aspirations must be fortified by two anchors—character development and training the mind—or serious problems can develop. The objective is not to suppress a child’s desire to excel but rather to support the desire by making sure that the two anchors are safely moored. Failure to demand consistent effort toward achieving proficiency in the anchor qualities is very detrimental to a youngster’s long-term development. Aspirational sports goals should never be mistaken as substitutes for, or interchangeable with, the anchor values.”


The Honorable Competitor
Can opponents clash in a competitive contest and demonstrate mutual respect while challenging one another to be and do their best? Doyle suggests that they can indeed if they are taught the true meaning of honorable competition.

“Teach your young athlete that the word competition comes from the Latin word competere, which means to strive together, not against each other. Respect is an important part of this concept. Impress upon your young athlete that the honorable competitor respects opponents and, when an opponent tries hard and plays fairly, one often ends up both respecting and admiring the opponent.” 
If we want sports and extracurricular activities to contribute to the good character of our children, then we must have a predetermined values-based parenting philosophy that we require our children adhere to both on and off the field. Doyle emphasizes, “Parents should punish their children for unsportsmanlike conduct, whether officials do or not. Parents who fail to discipline a young athlete often rationalize their failure with excuses such as the umpires are unfair or the other team plays dirty. Dads and moms must let their athlete know that misconduct will result in home discipline. Parents who ignore problems send the message that misconduct is acceptable. If you fail to actively and consistently teach your child the right values, you are, by default, leaving your child open to learning the wrong values. Harmful values include a win-at-any-cost mentality, outright cheating, arrogance, selfishness, acts of aggression and taking shortcuts to get ahead.” 

Parents seeking to promote the positive and neutralize the negative components of the contemporary competitive sports scene will benefit from the practical advice in Doyle’s The Encyclopedia of Sport Parenting

Parents seeking a code of conduct—a core set of virtues for formulating their parenting philosophy—need look no further than the Judeo-Christian ethic. Its golden rule provides a solid basis for a principled philosophy, good sportsmanship and quality of character. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you! This one brief statement promotes balance and perspective, expounds empathy, reveals the secret to graceful winning or dealing with disappointment, and champions the cause for class and character. 


TOM FITZPATRICK


 The Encyclopedia of Sports Parenting: Everything You Need to Guide Your Young Athlete

Giants Top Minor League Prospects

  • 1. Joey Bart 6-2, 215 C Power arm and a power bat, playing a premium defensive position. Good catch and throw skills.
  • 2. Heliot Ramos 6-2, 185 OF Potential high-ceiling player the Giants have been looking for. Great bat speed, early returns were impressive.
  • 3. Chris Shaw 6-3. 230 1B Lefty power bat, limited defensively to 1B, Matt Adams comp?
  • 4. Tyler Beede 6-4, 215 RHP from Vanderbilt projects as top of the rotation starter when he works out his command/control issues. When he misses, he misses by a bunch.
  • 5. Stephen Duggar 6-1, 170 CF Another toolsy, under-achieving OF in the Gary Brown mold, hoping for better results.
  • 6. Sandro Fabian 6-0, 180 OF Dominican signee from 2014, shows some pop in his bat. Below average arm and lack of speed should push him towards LF.
  • 7. Aramis Garcia 6-2, 220 C from Florida INTL projects as a good bat behind the dish with enough defensive skill to play there long-term
  • 8. Heath Quinn 6-2, 190 OF Strong hitter, makes contact with improving approach at the plate. Returns from hamate bone injury.
  • 9. Garrett Williams 6-1, 205 LHP Former Oklahoma standout, Giants prototype, low-ceiling, high-floor prospect.
  • 10. Shaun Anderson 6-4, 225 RHP Large frame, 3.36 K/BB rate. Can start or relieve
  • 11. Jacob Gonzalez 6-3, 190 3B Good pedigree, impressive bat for HS prospect.
  • 12. Seth Corry 6-2 195 LHP Highly regard HS pick. Was mentioned as possible chip in high profile trades.
  • 13. C.J. Hinojosa 5-10, 175 SS Scrappy IF prospect in the mold of Kelby Tomlinson, just gets it done.
  • 14. Garett Cave 6-4, 200 RHP He misses a lot of bats and at times, the plate. 13 K/9 an 5 B/9. Wild thing.

2019 MLB Draft - Top HS Draft Prospects

  • 1. Bobby Witt, Jr. 6-1,185 SS Colleyville Heritage HS (TX) Oklahoma commit. Outstanding defensive SS who can hit. 6.4 speed in 60 yd. Touched 97 on mound. Son of former major leaguer. Five tool potential.
  • 2. Riley Greene 6-2, 190 OF Haggerty HS (FL) Florida commit.Best HS hitting prospect. LH bat with good eye, plate discipline and developing power.
  • 3. C.J. Abrams 6-2, 180 SS Blessed Trinity HS (GA) High-ceiling athlete. 70 speed with plus arm. Hitting needs to develop as he matures. Alabama commit.
  • 4. Reece Hinds 6-4, 210 SS Niceville HS (FL) Power bat, committed to LSU. Plus arm, solid enough bat to move to 3B down the road. 98MPH arm.
  • 5. Daniel Espino 6-3, 200 RHP Georgia Premier Academy (GA) LSU commit. Touches 98 on FB with wipe out SL.

2019 MLB Draft - Top College Draft Prospects

  • 1. Adley Rutschman C Oregon State Plus defender with great arm. Excellent receiver plus a switch hitter with some pop in the bat.
  • 2. Shea Langliers C Baylor Excelent throw and catch skills with good pop time. Quick bat, uses all fields approach with some pop.
  • 3. Zack Thompson 6-2 LHP Kentucky Missed time with an elbow issue. FB up to 95 with plenty of secondary stuff.
  • 4. Matt Wallner 6-5 OF Southern Miss Run producing bat plus mid to upper 90's FB closer. Power bat from the left side, athletic for size.
  • 5. Nick Lodolo LHP TCU Tall LHP, 95MPH FB and solid breaking stuff.